So the question was posed to me a few weeks ago, in reference to my first blog. "Who am I agonizing for?" Why the rethinking and editing of every phrase that I "utter" into the Blogosphere? Is it for my own ego? An impossible childhood standard? Why do I care so much? Who's approval am I seeking?
After mulling over this last question, I am still not quite sure. There are surely those more experienced and intelligent than I whose approval would be important, but who are those people? And would they ever, in some random twist of fate, ever come across my tiny little corner of this great big blog world? Am I secretly dreaming of the Mensa board glued to their computers waiting anxiously for my next post? Maybe a little. Hey, a girl can dream right?
But in all reality, this really got me thinking about what it is that we all put out there, in cyberspace. This persona, with pictures and quotes to tell the world who we really are, (or want to be). With all this effort that goes into maintaining all of our online profiles and social networking sites, I have to wonder, "How close are our online profiles to who we are in the physical world?".
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I think it's impossible to define someone's personality through an online profile. I think sites like Facebook are useful for professional networking and keeping in touch with old friends, but as far as getting to know someone new just by reading their profile, I don't think anything can replace a real face-to-face conversation.
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